Would appreciate input from readers.
Background: wife and I are finishing up residencies (psych & PM&R) this month for me and fall for wife. Have 3 small kids not yet in school. Currently live in great community in Columbus, OH. Think of the best of midwest (good neighborhoods, affordable housing costs, good schools, short commute, basically can easily live within our means).
Situation: interventional pain fellowship (unaccredited) for wife in Phoenix.
1. We are having quite difficult time in making decision whether to stay in community we have grown to love or to take the leap and move to Phoenix (Scottsdale area).
2. Potential pros are obvious
--much higher salary for her post-fellowship (we assume 400k) or opportunity to get descent salary while working part-time (rather than working part-time without fellowship training and making slightly over 100k).
--higher salary will help us pay off loans quick (we have combined of 500k)
--warmer climate most of the year (important to wife)
--salaries for me as higher as well
3. Cons
--we are getting tired of moving, wish to settle down
--worry we wont find schools as good as in Columbus
--worry that if we move we will continue to be unable to settle down (will be renting initially, don't necessarily see us staying in Phoenix for over 5 years)
--higher cost of living (will be renting, which is about $3k/mo. And for a place not much bigger or even smaller than what we currently have for $1.3k/mo.
--Phoenix may be great, or it may be a nightmare of an area.
--family is far, only way to come with us is to fly in from East.
--Getting sort of tired of the training/achievement mouse-wheel
--Why can't we be comfortable with $380k combined income we will have here in Columbus?, why are we chasing this potential $600k combined income in Phoenix?
4. I just worry my wife will kick herself for not doing this fellowship for much higher salary opportunity.
At the same time we wish to stay put, live this comfortable mid-west lifestyle.
5. What do you folks think about this decision?
Background: wife and I are finishing up residencies (psych & PM&R) this month for me and fall for wife. Have 3 small kids not yet in school. Currently live in great community in Columbus, OH. Think of the best of midwest (good neighborhoods, affordable housing costs, good schools, short commute, basically can easily live within our means).
Situation: interventional pain fellowship (unaccredited) for wife in Phoenix.
1. We are having quite difficult time in making decision whether to stay in community we have grown to love or to take the leap and move to Phoenix (Scottsdale area).
2. Potential pros are obvious
--much higher salary for her post-fellowship (we assume 400k) or opportunity to get descent salary while working part-time (rather than working part-time without fellowship training and making slightly over 100k).
--higher salary will help us pay off loans quick (we have combined of 500k)
--warmer climate most of the year (important to wife)
--salaries for me as higher as well
3. Cons
--we are getting tired of moving, wish to settle down
--worry we wont find schools as good as in Columbus
--worry that if we move we will continue to be unable to settle down (will be renting initially, don't necessarily see us staying in Phoenix for over 5 years)
--higher cost of living (will be renting, which is about $3k/mo. And for a place not much bigger or even smaller than what we currently have for $1.3k/mo.
--Phoenix may be great, or it may be a nightmare of an area.
--family is far, only way to come with us is to fly in from East.
--Getting sort of tired of the training/achievement mouse-wheel
--Why can't we be comfortable with $380k combined income we will have here in Columbus?, why are we chasing this potential $600k combined income in Phoenix?
4. I just worry my wife will kick herself for not doing this fellowship for much higher salary opportunity.
At the same time we wish to stay put, live this comfortable mid-west lifestyle.
5. What do you folks think about this decision?
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