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  • #31




    Personal experience, I live in a “not so trendy place”.  We have been criticized for “living in the middle of nowhere”.
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    Hmm...I guess I should clarify that I would be VERY happy living in the "middle of nowhere". My comment on trendiness was that med-school-ville had an atmosphere of growth, excitement, and upward mobility, whereas residency-ville seems more staid and unambitious.

     

    If anything, some self-reflection has left me leaning away from research and fellowship and towards a calmer life somewhere where I can find meaning in nature, hobbies, etc. If I decide I want that, I'll be upset at the wasted efforts I put into a more high-powered research-oriented career, but that's obviously sunk cost.

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    • #32


      That’s it, entirely. Maybe it’s just growing up and realizing that reality. The amount of blood, sweat, tears, hours, and life I put into this training just doesn’t seem commensurate with it being “just a job”. I’ve done nearly nothing but eat/live/breathe medicine and training for medicine for…..forever. And for the final “reward” to be “just a job” that pays an amount that requires me to still be careful with money makes me feel like it wasn’t worth it.
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      it was part of my MD/PhD, and now as an intern, there isn’t time/resources. I’m considering a research-track fellowship, but realizing that the end result of that would be a poorly-paying academic job (replete with long hours, fierce grant competition, and lots of stress)….makes me think that’s not what I want to be doing.
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      It was almost as if you had a prolonged drug high from which you have been brought back to earth.

      As a PhD you rarely had to write a grant or worry about a salary. As a post doc or researcher those realities affect you. By doing PhD you almost became unaware you were just a medical student and after every student phase comes a internship with scut work that you were not prepared for. I see this in many international graduates who were high standing attending back home and are now a lowly intern in USA. But time passes quickly.

      If you want, you can do a fellowship in the field you had done your PhD and then go on to a job in the pharma sector. If you want bench research that is available and so are openings in clinical trials. I get offers to join companies, especially smaller ones as their medical vice director or something like that. Looks good on paper but requires constant travel and meeting with FDA and other researchers conducting the trials. I hate travel being in a different hotel room every other night. And it is brutal if you have a spouse and children.

      So be happy where you are now and do a fellowship. Things will start to become bright again in a few years.

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      • #33




        If anything, some self-reflection has left me leaning away from research and fellowship and towards a calmer life somewhere where I can find meaning in nature, hobbies, etc. If I decide I want that, I’ll be upset at the wasted efforts I put into a more high-powered research-oriented career, but that’s obviously sunk cost.
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        Not wasted at all!  You learned something about yourself, and that's never a waste!

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        • #34
          I'd vote for the SSRIs.

          Sounds like you're entering your 30s and hit the dead end.

          Even an MD job making $250k is typically going to be a dead end job unless you go out and start your own practice or form some new business.

          Once your wife decides to retire, that avenue is closed forever.

          You could make a career change, location change, but yeah for now you're stuck until you choose (wisely or unwisely) to dig yourself out.

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          • #35
            This is why I refused to think of a job out of residency as a "reward" for hard work in medical school and residency. I did the best I could in medical school and residency to pursue hobbies, develop relationships and in general live my life. I didn't feel disappointed in the pay out because I was already living a fulfilling life - now its just a more comfortable one.

            People go to high school and say they'll be happy when they get to college, then medical school, then residency, then fellowship, then that first job, then chief, then national speaker, etc. There's always something further if you focus on it. Just focus on the now.

             

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            • #36
              I am reading through the replies on this post and am somewhat saddened by the responses. As an academic physician, I like my job and look forward to work every day. Its just not the research, but the mix of seeing a wide variety of patients, being involved with teaching and a being part of a community which is quite fulfilling. Yes, there are times when its not pretty - but I really feel I have a chance to make a difference everyday. I am not interested in taking an early retirement or doing something else. My trainees out in the real world are for the most part very happy with what they do.

              I think you are bummed out in your intern year and also it represents a big change from what your prior situation was. Remember, a lot of how you go though life is about expectations. Hang in there, try to have a balance outside work and try hard to figure out what motivates you. Being in Medicine is still one of the best professions and if you can find your niche, you will feel fulfilled.

               

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              • #37


                I just thought my work would have some profound meaning to the world, and realizing that the impact is pretty minor (whether I’m a hospitalist, specialist, or academic) is probably just catching up to me.
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                That is a fact.  However, you will have a potentially profound impact on a number of individuals during your career. Anyone who has been on the patient side of the equation knows that and sometimes it takes having that experience as a doctor to remember it.

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                • #38
                  Internship was the worst year of my life. Some days in internship I really wished I was the janitor or something else with less pressure and responsibility.

                  Being a university student were the best years of my life.

                  At the end of internship, a reasonable number of my colleagues moved from medicine to managing consulting and tech ventures (I graduated in the late 90's and it was around the tech bubble). A few of them returned when the tech bubble burst. I am really glad I kept with medicine. I am really happy with my job now. It just got better after internship for me. And I really loved it when I got out of the mainstream teaching hospital system.

                  Not sure why you think your income is capped to 250k/year. Maybe look at different specialities and if income is important to you do one of the higher paying ones.

                  If you feel quite depressed though, perhaps see someone. Physician suicide and depression do occur. Don't self-prescribe SSRI's or anything else. At least see your F.P. Ask around and see someone (F.P, Psychiatrist, Psychologist) if you need to. You are definitely not alone in terms of finding internship depressing and if you're clinically depressed, there probably are plenty of other doctors out there who have been in that situation also.

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                  • #39
                    I, too, had an existential crisis when I finished my residency.  I thought to myself, I climbed all these mountains to finally attain what essentially was just a "job".  It seemed the payoff was so disappointing, hollow.  I looked out on the horizon and saw no other mountains to climb.  Of course looking back on it, I was short-sighted and just plain wrong.  I learned that there's plenty of other peaks to summit.  Perhaps not as daunting, perhaps not in medicine, perhaps not so "in your face" but they're out there and with enough motivation you can find them and scale those as well.

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                    • #40
                      It's a wonderful thing to be able to see the human being in front of you as your raison d'être. After that, nearly everything else falls into place (finances, liability protection, life and career satisfaction). It might take some work to get there, but it's worth it.

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                      • #41





                        Can’t Take It With You













                        I'll tell you something, baby, that's a fact
                        Never see a hearse with a luggage rack
                        All your money, your hard earned pay
                        It don't mean ************************, babe, at the end of the day


                        Can't take it with you, can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you, can't take it with you
                        Oh no, you can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you when you go


                        As sure as life, and the light of day
                        I'll tell you something I've heard them say
                        It don't matter, baby, what you're worth
                        Seems we all, we all go back to Mother Earth


                        Can't take it with you, can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you, can't take it with you
                        Oh no, you can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you when you go




                        Work all your life, you've become a slave
                        There ain't no spending when you're in the grave
                        Even if it's raining, thousand dollar bills
                        Think of me, baby, in your mansion on the hill


                        Can't take it with you, can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you, can't take it with you
                        Oh no, you can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you
                        Can't take it with you


                        What you or anyone will never get again is time, no matter how  much you make.  Enjoy your time, it's the one thing that is not guaranteed on this earth.   You and your wife are doing well.  Anybody can order Opus One.  Not everyone knows good wine or can say they have obtained that knowledge by enjoying themselves (or whatever floats your boat).  Salt away enough to retire without worries and hopefully you'll make it there, but enjoy everyday in case you don't.  Trust me you don't want to ever play the "what if" game, you'll never stop.






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