Good thread.
Anne with the running analogy thats me now. I used to be real fast, then stopped running for a few years while dealing with other things. A charity 5k has got me back into trying again, but I'm so disappointed in my times that I almost stopped (if it werent for my wife's cancer research I wouldnt have kept my promise to run). I get bored going slow, and now I am slow (in my head). But I started reading The Happy Runner that a friend sent me so that I can be ok with slower times/longer distances and actually not hurting myself at the same time.
But this thread reminded me of a quote my late wife had highlighted in her phone- "The goal is to die with memories, not dreams". So dont forget to do stuff you enjoy now while also planning for later. Bc later is not guaranteed. In her final talks re:hospice she mentioned that she cant do the things she wants to anymore, but she was happy she was able to do everything that she wanted to do in life- enjoy the beach travel friends etc. So as long as I get to the point where dementia kicks in having crossed off my bucket list, I'll be satisfied.
JBME artemis certain specialties allow the slow down style despite being an employee- its actually easier in anesthesia to do that as an employee than as a partner bc then there is no "who will pick up the missed calls" conversations- per diem, locums, or just daytime /part time are all available to employees but certain private groups will harbor extreme prejudice to a partner wanting to cut back or slow down. Or maybe the partners have unrealistic visions of maintaining a certain control in the group I dunno.
Anne with the running analogy thats me now. I used to be real fast, then stopped running for a few years while dealing with other things. A charity 5k has got me back into trying again, but I'm so disappointed in my times that I almost stopped (if it werent for my wife's cancer research I wouldnt have kept my promise to run). I get bored going slow, and now I am slow (in my head). But I started reading The Happy Runner that a friend sent me so that I can be ok with slower times/longer distances and actually not hurting myself at the same time.
But this thread reminded me of a quote my late wife had highlighted in her phone- "The goal is to die with memories, not dreams". So dont forget to do stuff you enjoy now while also planning for later. Bc later is not guaranteed. In her final talks re:hospice she mentioned that she cant do the things she wants to anymore, but she was happy she was able to do everything that she wanted to do in life- enjoy the beach travel friends etc. So as long as I get to the point where dementia kicks in having crossed off my bucket list, I'll be satisfied.
JBME artemis certain specialties allow the slow down style despite being an employee- its actually easier in anesthesia to do that as an employee than as a partner bc then there is no "who will pick up the missed calls" conversations- per diem, locums, or just daytime /part time are all available to employees but certain private groups will harbor extreme prejudice to a partner wanting to cut back or slow down. Or maybe the partners have unrealistic visions of maintaining a certain control in the group I dunno.
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