My Mom. Parents raised 5 kids (with differing success) that way. Allowances started in 1st grade. A little bit of chores to earn it. Money to spend was not “free”.
You could spend it on ANYTHING you wanted as long as it was legal. Earn more money, save it to spend. Deferred gratification was a learned behavior.
I have never lived paycheck to paycheck. Nor allowance to allowance,I always had money in the bank (not a lot) and had to choose to keep it or spend it. Saying “no” to yourself is easier than being told “no” by someone else. People don’t just give you money, you need your own.
Investing and retirement planning is a different question. Adapting the fiscal personality.
You could spend it on ANYTHING you wanted as long as it was legal. Earn more money, save it to spend. Deferred gratification was a learned behavior.
I have never lived paycheck to paycheck. Nor allowance to allowance,I always had money in the bank (not a lot) and had to choose to keep it or spend it. Saying “no” to yourself is easier than being told “no” by someone else. People don’t just give you money, you need your own.
Investing and retirement planning is a different question. Adapting the fiscal personality.
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