my wife thinks i’ve gone nuts with all the attention to money and retirement funds. she thinks i’m needlessly anxious.
I get that, too. I usually just respond that me paying attention to this stuff now means we don't have to worry about it later.
my wife thinks i’ve gone nuts with all the attention to money and retirement funds. she thinks i’m needlessly anxious.
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I was #4 all-time poster by volume (behind Johanna, Zaphod, and WCI) before Hatton and Vagabond passed me over the past week. No one ever offered me a modship :’-( congratulations Doc Spouse!
Now to go post “agree with above” to a bunch of threads to massage that post count…
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I was #4 all-time poster by volume (behind Johanna, Zaphod, and WCI) before Hatton and Vagabond passed me over the past week. No one ever offered me a modship :’-( congratulations Doc Spouse!
Now to go post “agree with above” to a bunch of threads to massage that post count…
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I was #4 all-time poster by volume (behind Johanna, Zaphod, and WCI) before Hatton and Vagabond passed me over the past week. No one ever offered me a modship :’-( congratulations Doc Spouse!
Now to go post “agree with above” to a bunch of threads to massage that post count…
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i nominate dmfa for moderatorship
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i think you did a great thing creating this place. i think you are stretched thin. for some reason, you have a slightly thin skin when it comes to criticisms, which i think are 1)well intended and 2)actually do need to be contemplated. i think you need some time to consider which tasks you can offload. i know that is super hard. it may be that you have to pay someone to help you manage the empire. there are probably plenty of people who spend twice (five times?) the time on the forum that you do, only because they like hanging out. i don’t care about the financials of your website so i can’t possibly begin to understand what goes into the decision making process. really, with all due respect, the only part of your empire i care about is the forum. however, if you want to take the path that most successful forums do, moderation isn’t a benign small task that should be given to people like me who are 1)brand new here and 2)unknown quantities. you would really trust someone with the moderation responsibilities who has the ability to scare off new people, bully known posters with different philosophies, and delete and edit posts without vetting them? that’s my only concern with passive income becoming a moderator without participating at all. you have created something amazing here. but it’s like raising a kid. you don’t get the appreciation you deserve, and they don’t always do what you want, how you want, when you want. moderation is a thankless task. imo, it should really be carefully considered. i hope you can take these comments in a non critical, supportive way. if you are looking for suggestions, i think longevity and history of thoughtful non inflammatory posts are good place to start. i suggest in no particular order (and i’m sorry if this appears as if i’m volunteering anyone i’m not intending to)—vagabond, hatton1, dr mom, would be good places to start. they don’t ever post reactively or with a thin skin. they are always polite and helpful. they are here a lot. jmo, as always. lastly i don’t read chinese. ????
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Very well said.
I think this forum works very well. Having different viewpoints without actually coming to blows is a fine line. Most of us self moderate and know which line to not cross. Most of it is because we value ourselves and because good taste and decorum states which is acceptable and which is not.
WCI, you have done a fantastic job with the blog and forum. Do not take this the wrong way but sometimes you come across as angry at criticism even when the criticism is not valid. Take for example the number of ads. The poster felt there were too many ads for the content while you felt the actual numbers were more on your site than his. I think both are right. You on the physical number, and he on the blog value / ad ratio. Maybe a better option would be to state that you feel that the ads are appropriate at both sites and leave it at that. You are the owner and at some point should just brush things off.
I also agree that moderation is a tough thankless job that should be given to only level headed long standing posters. I think q-school, hatton1 and Vagabond would make good moderators. And sometimes moderators have their off days.
Best of luck in expanding your network.
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+1 on the ed being quite thin-skinned, grumpy, seems to take a lot of things very personally. Probably the nature of an ER doc.
For what it’s worth, on other successful forums usually the owner/admin is a bit more aloof.
Of course it’s the WCI forum owned by WCI, WCI’s way or the highway. Nothing wrong with that. Only problem is, getting salty with things like well-intentioned criticism from quality long-time posters can lead to many of them choosing that highway option.
Once the quality posters start leaving, you’re left more and more with just the riff-raff, and it’s a bit of a death spiral, particularly for a small community.
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I was #4 all-time poster by volume (behind Johanna, Zaphod, and WCI) before Hatton and Vagabond passed me over the past week. No one ever offered me a modship :’-( congratulations Doc Spouse!
Now to go post “agree with above” to a bunch of threads to massage that post count…
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i nominate dmfa for moderatorship
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Second the nomination, for two reasons:
1. He is an excellent poster, great guy and master of financial matters.
2. By creating this post, I can increase the distance between my post count and his.
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i think he’s also probably among the most knowledgeable of the regulars.
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my wife thinks i’ve gone nuts with all the attention to money and retirement funds. she thinks i’m needlessly anxious.
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That is just two examples of folks with different convictions, morals, minset, and business ideas.
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Sounds good. Probably I spend the majority of my time on the forum here, so it never bothered me.
My main point is, put out quality content and people won’t mind ads and sponsors.
Here is another interesting one:
https://www.samharris.org/blog
No ads, not on the blog or even the audio podcast. He allows one to donate through the site if they so wish. He also says on the podcast: “if you cannot afford to donate, don’t donate”.
That is just two examples of folks with different convictions, morals, minset, and business ideas.
P.S. Tim F had a blog (strictly written content) from 2007 to 2014 before he started a podcast.
P.P.S I have to confess that my experience biases me. Two of the examples I brought up happen to be the content creators I enjoy and devote my time to the most, and they happen to not have any ads on their website. Despite thier business model, I don’t think they have a money problem
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Sounds good. Probably I spend the majority of my time on the forum here, so it never bothered me.
My main point is, put out quality content and people won’t mind ads and sponsors.
Here is another interesting one:
https://www.samharris.org/blog
No ads, not on the blog or even the audio podcast. He allows one to donate through the site if they so wish. He also says on the podcast: “if you cannot afford to donate, don’t donate”.
That is just two examples of folks with different convictions, morals, minset, and business ideas.
P.S. Tim F had a blog (strictly written content) from 2007 to 2014 before he started a podcast.
P.P.S I have to confess that my experience biases me. Two of the examples I brought up happen to be the content creators I enjoy and devote my time to the most, and they happen to not have any ads on their website. Despite thier business model, I don’t think they have a money problem
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