how do we feel about elder law?
my mom had a meeting with an elder lawyer and basically what she remembers is that there are strategic options to avoid nursing homes taking your assets if you have to go to a nursing home. I'm digesting what she is saying but basically it sounds like there is a field devoted to trying to take people who have resources and not use them to pay for services that are then paid by medicaid? it seems like then they basically pre-death inherit the assets to the kids, leaving creditors in the lurch. this is through mom, who's half deaf and half crazy, so I could be misunderstanding
is that kosher? is that screwing over everyone around you? just being smart?
mom is very motivated to leave whatever she has to us, so if it's legal, she's probably going to do it. I'm not sure how I feel about it.
my mom had a meeting with an elder lawyer and basically what she remembers is that there are strategic options to avoid nursing homes taking your assets if you have to go to a nursing home. I'm digesting what she is saying but basically it sounds like there is a field devoted to trying to take people who have resources and not use them to pay for services that are then paid by medicaid? it seems like then they basically pre-death inherit the assets to the kids, leaving creditors in the lurch. this is through mom, who's half deaf and half crazy, so I could be misunderstanding
is that kosher? is that screwing over everyone around you? just being smart?
mom is very motivated to leave whatever she has to us, so if it's legal, she's probably going to do it. I'm not sure how I feel about it.
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