Maybe it's the winter blues and no way to escape it, but seems more melancholic threads than usual lately.
Allow me to add one more.
General dentist in a solo practice.
I work Mo-Th, about 30 clinical hours. Have had the same schedule for 19 yrs.
Will turn 48 in 2 weeks. Happily married, 2 children, one in 3rd yr in undergrad, the other starting college in the fall. Neither is interested in dentistry.
Assets:
$7.5M in investable assets ($4.5M after tax, $3M tax-deferred).
529 plans fully funded.
Practice worth about $1.5-2M.
Home worth about $1.5M with $400K mortgage (3% with 7 yrs left on 15 yr term).
Income from practice $1.4M yr.
Expenses $250K/yr ($150K ex housing).
Had COVID about a month ago, luckily recovered uneventfully. The apathy of the first week or two has passed, and I'm closer to my normal self. But still it's becoming more difficult to work as hard as I used to - physically and mentally. I know many of you guys work double my hours, but the 4 days I do work are hard days. Very taxing on the mind and body.
And it's unclear to me why I do work. Our expenses are minimal relative to our income. Our savings rate is 50%. We have no costly hobbies - nice enough cars, decent enough clothes, wife is happy with her jewelry collection. Our biggest interest is travel - we generally travel at very fast pace to 8-10 countries a year, and COVID border lockdown has affected us tremendously.
My wife is an RN by training, a couple of years older, was getting burned out and quit her job about 2.5 yrs after 20+ yrs of working for various MLTC plans. A short break turned into a long one, during which she hasn't done much. She is starting a new job on March 1, mostly because she received a generous offer. That said, her salary has minimal effect on our budget, and I don't know how long she plans to keep the job she doesn't like for the money she doesn't need.
Most dentists are cuffed to their practices and can't easily cut their hours in half. There are patients who need to be seen and staff who want to get paid.
So at this point, I am vacillating between different options.
Selling outright and spending the next few years traveling is an attractive option. We've never taken a trip for longer than 11 days, and it would be interesting to see if we enjoy a slower pace. In our experience, we don't, but maybe it'll change.
Hire associates and step away from clinical dentistry - very likely more trouble than it's worth. My dental skills are not special in any way, but there is no way a recent grad can produce at my level. It would likely be a lot of false starts, tons of hand holding, and would likely result going back to option 1.
And a pipe dream of selling all or part, and remaining with the practice in limited capacity - an unlikely scenario but probably the best one.
So my questions to those that have achieve FI at an earlier age that they anticipated -
If you couldn't easily decrease your clinical workload - how did you deal with lack of motivation to work as hard?
If you continued working the same hours - what was the goal?
I am particularly interested in experience of dentists who couldn't take easily take time off - or perhaps sold, took a break, and came back?
Thank you for reading and thank you in advance for your responses.
Allow me to add one more.
General dentist in a solo practice.
I work Mo-Th, about 30 clinical hours. Have had the same schedule for 19 yrs.
Will turn 48 in 2 weeks. Happily married, 2 children, one in 3rd yr in undergrad, the other starting college in the fall. Neither is interested in dentistry.
Assets:
$7.5M in investable assets ($4.5M after tax, $3M tax-deferred).
529 plans fully funded.
Practice worth about $1.5-2M.
Home worth about $1.5M with $400K mortgage (3% with 7 yrs left on 15 yr term).
Income from practice $1.4M yr.
Expenses $250K/yr ($150K ex housing).
Had COVID about a month ago, luckily recovered uneventfully. The apathy of the first week or two has passed, and I'm closer to my normal self. But still it's becoming more difficult to work as hard as I used to - physically and mentally. I know many of you guys work double my hours, but the 4 days I do work are hard days. Very taxing on the mind and body.
And it's unclear to me why I do work. Our expenses are minimal relative to our income. Our savings rate is 50%. We have no costly hobbies - nice enough cars, decent enough clothes, wife is happy with her jewelry collection. Our biggest interest is travel - we generally travel at very fast pace to 8-10 countries a year, and COVID border lockdown has affected us tremendously.
My wife is an RN by training, a couple of years older, was getting burned out and quit her job about 2.5 yrs after 20+ yrs of working for various MLTC plans. A short break turned into a long one, during which she hasn't done much. She is starting a new job on March 1, mostly because she received a generous offer. That said, her salary has minimal effect on our budget, and I don't know how long she plans to keep the job she doesn't like for the money she doesn't need.
Most dentists are cuffed to their practices and can't easily cut their hours in half. There are patients who need to be seen and staff who want to get paid.
So at this point, I am vacillating between different options.
Selling outright and spending the next few years traveling is an attractive option. We've never taken a trip for longer than 11 days, and it would be interesting to see if we enjoy a slower pace. In our experience, we don't, but maybe it'll change.
Hire associates and step away from clinical dentistry - very likely more trouble than it's worth. My dental skills are not special in any way, but there is no way a recent grad can produce at my level. It would likely be a lot of false starts, tons of hand holding, and would likely result going back to option 1.
And a pipe dream of selling all or part, and remaining with the practice in limited capacity - an unlikely scenario but probably the best one.
So my questions to those that have achieve FI at an earlier age that they anticipated -
If you couldn't easily decrease your clinical workload - how did you deal with lack of motivation to work as hard?
If you continued working the same hours - what was the goal?
I am particularly interested in experience of dentists who couldn't take easily take time off - or perhaps sold, took a break, and came back?
Thank you for reading and thank you in advance for your responses.
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