i’m not sure what percent of posters here have a FA. let’s say < 20%. i think it’s probably even less than that. so, as you surmise, this may not be the right place to ask the focused question you are asking here.
however, i am one of the minority posters who has a FA. they are 1% AUM. i’ve had them for twenty years. in the early years they weren’t making much. in the later years they started making more. i assessed their work periodically and had an idea when the value shifted. as the accounts grew larger and larger, and my time and energy and comfort grew, i started shifting money away from them and managing myself. it’s not necessarily all or none. most of the people here are going to die with a huge estate. if they die with a slightly smaller estate with the help of an advisor (which is not a fact imo) , that may or many not be painful to them. i think on this board there is a lot of hope for optimal efficiency with investments. however, my observations are a few big mistakes can take a long time to recover from. slow and steady investing is going to win a lot of races. in our doctor lunch room, index fund investing is a lonely lonely path.
money is a tool. if you don’t like managing money, or don’t care to, or don’t want to, then you pay someone to do it for you. same as lawncare or personal trainer or whatever.
it is my personal opinion that we will never know whether someone is better off with or without an advisor. some people are not DIY. some people perceive value where others do not. that’s fine. i would not offer you the advice that a FA would hurt you or help you. i would ask you to reflect on whether you trust the advice from intelligent people being offered here. if you don’t trust that’s fine, but you are going to get the same responses time and again here. i suspect as you follow your journey to financial wisdom, if you come back here annually and reread the questions you pose, and the responses, you will see the answers as more and more reasonable every year.
i don’t think anyone intended to financial-shame you.
Thanks q-school — I guess that’s the risk of posting here, it is also a skewed set of opinions (like asking in a Crunchy Moms Forum if I think organic milk is worth the added cost), though I do agree they are educated and experienced and more bottom-line oriented than possibly anyone else I may meet in the financial industry.
I really don’t want to pay 1% every year anymore unless I feel I’m getting value for that, and for the past few years I really didn’t. Right now I feel like I could use a good deal of help, but I still want to keep costs down, and, like you, minimize fees paid as that value (hopefully!) reduces. My goal is within a year, and I hope I can make it. I have a lot of problems to solve before then, and will likely be posting here again to crowd-source more opinions on those specific questions too.
Are you saying that you do or don’t agree with index fund investing (vs actively managed funds)? You made a few comments above about investing and I am missing your point I think.
i am of the KISS philosophy. i think index funds are great and set it and forget it would work well for you. most here would advise you to occasionally rebalance and tax harvest, but i think as long as you are saving enough, you will be fine with just constantly investing for another twenty plus years.
i think if you don't know what to do and want to save FA fees and time, just start with boglehead three fund plan.
when i'm in the doctors lounge, i have heard of colleagues personally owning dairy queen, real estate, complex hedging and option strategies, businesses etc etc.
full disclosure-in my old age, i decided to buy some farmland recently. however, i'm financially independent and not really specifically focused on maximum possible net worth at death. otherwise stocks and index funds.
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